Thursday, January 20, 2011

what a date should be??

just when i thought that love is flying around in the air. my friends were telling me that they are not. it seems funny because just a few moments they were texting and calling each other happily and after a short while, they don't. one of them were waiting excitedly for her date this very evening when she told me that it was cancel because they had a fight. while another give me a rang that her boyfriend actually asked her to pay for the fuels. i stunned. seriously guys? or should i say gentlemen out there? you are the one who asked your girlfriend out but yet you make them pay for it. i'm speechless. that was not what i'm expecting from my friends. but i wasn't expecting for a superbly romantic dating after all. 


love as the word itself remarks the feelings between two people who need each other. by hard or ease. going trough everything together. people whom in love casually will just follow their heart and never listen to the other eventhough they are wrong. 

but when it comes to DATE, it could be a real mess. how could this happen anyway? 
for me myself, i wasn't expecting my boyfriend to bring along with him thousand bouquet of white roses. nor expecting him to bring me to a 5 star hotel for our dates. hanging around with him at mamak stall or just sitting around in the park would be perfect. because all that matters for me is to have him by myside. as simple as that. but it'll make me so happy. i'm not the kind of girl who's expecting for him to drive a benz or perdana v6 at least. or paying for everything like bills, movies and etc. i know it by myself that he wasn't capable of paying anything by himself just yet. unless he's already work. i'd rather pay for my own meals and ticket than letting him paying for it because we'll never know how far our relationship could last. but for the least, having your girlfriend paying for the fuels every single time you bring her out for a date? you are so unbelievable. 

be more considerate will you? sharing is caring. but the sentence refer to both. guys and girls. so for guys, be more gentle okay? don't let people look down at you for the way you treat your own girlfriend, the one you have been cherish for all of this time. and for the girls, don't expect him to pay for everything when he himself is still a student. that's not his money. it's his parents. 

and if you don't have any money by your own wills, DON'T DATE. because using your parents money for your own enjoyment is kind off suck. no offence okay? 


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